Begin to spring break,WOW

March 12th, 2010

 

Next week, we have a week-long spring break. Many classmates have made wonderful plans. Some go to Hawaii, some go to NY, some go to LA…

I will go nowhere. Maybe go to the theater to see IMAX3D AVATAR on Tuesday. Then go to the California Academy of Science on Wednesday, due to it’s free on the third Wednesday every month. Other times, I will prepare for the TOEFL test on March 27.

Yap, that’s my plan for spring break.

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你内不是偏执,是幼稚,活在自己未成熟的世界里

March 10th, 2010

 

小丫头说自己有灾害妄想症要去看医生,问怎么了?她布鲁塞尔的男友一晚联系不上,早上8点也找不到人,她就抓狂了。其实这是很常见的恋爱少女怀疑男友出轨综合症。区别只是每个人的担心程度有多少,会不会影响正常生活。

其实我挺高兴她会那么担心,因为可以看出来,这次她真的是认真去恋爱了。衷心地祝福她能够修成正果生个漂漂亮亮的混血小公主。

但作为朋友,还是得严重指出她某些想法的不成熟,如题。

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拖延症 Procrastination

March 1st, 2010

 

我有拖拖拉拉的毛病,转这篇文章给自己看,警醒一下并加以改正。

Procrastination的形成

1.一个人认为自己5天之内可以做完一件事情,所以在离deadline还有15天的时候一点不着急,直到最后只剩5天了才开始。
2.这种紧迫感和焦虑往往促发人的斗志,会让自己觉得,自己只有在压力状态下才有做事情的状态。
3.最后拿到成绩的时候,成绩往往不是很差,这样子就强化了自己最适合在deadline之前短期高压的状态下工作的心态,并且对以后的行为不断进行自我暗示。

这一个部分写得非常符合大部分有拖沓习惯的中国学生的经历。因为中国学生往往非常聪明,所以哪怕最后只剩一点点时间了,也会完成得不错;从而自认为自己最适合这样子的工作状态。周而复始,反复循环。

 

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Chinese new year Parade

February 27th, 2010

 

It’s said that the Chinese new year Parade in San Francisco is the most biggest parade outside China. Hundreds of performers will go through the route and appear traditional actings. On hearing the news, I invited some classmates, Noémie, Hunji, Sanaan, Hana and Yiwei, five beautiful girls, to visit the parade together.

We fixed a time for the meeting at the Market St & 3rd St, which was the place where parade would begin. When I got there at 4:30pm, the police  just got off the ground to block the section where the parade would pass. At 5 o’clock, more and more people gathered alone the Market St.

Some were sitting on the curbstones and some were standing behind the barriers set by the police; some were coming alone and some were with family or friends; some were yellow race and some were black or white. In a nut shell, this place was filled with various people. We came here for the same thing: New Year, New Hope.

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蜗居里的台词

February 27th, 2010

 

在蜗居的第十三集,海藻开始堕落到与宋思明的非正常关系中。虽然是非正常关系,但前半段宋思明给海藻说的关于精神快乐的话挺有些道理,特听录如下:

宋:我希望能在物质上帮助你,并且最终让你获得精神上的快乐

海藻:你以为拥有物质,就会拥有精神啊?

宋:不会的。精神要更强大一些,但通往精神的路很多,物质是其中一部分。

海藻:(低头不语)

宋:你知道为什么毒品会带给人快乐吗?因为吸食毒品,会直接刺激一些中枢神经。你这边一吸呢,大脑那边愉悦神经的图表上就会闪现火花。

海藻:(抬头看着宋)

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有啥好羡慕的,把自己的路走精彩了,就不必羡慕他人了,羡慕不来的

February 24th, 2010

 

有个好久没聊的朋友,刚给我发QQ信息,聊到我出国读书,他说很羡慕,我说了如上的话。

这不是我安慰他,而是自己的真心所想。

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米国春节,就相当于在广州过国庆,who cares

February 21st, 2010

 

很多朋友都问我:在美国过春节怎么样?

实在不怎么样。就是和家人一起吃了顿自己做的大餐,然后陪他们打了打麻将,仅此而已。

但又不好将别人的关心生生地掰回去,就发明创造了标题的话。

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蜗居,普通的80后普遍的痛

February 21st, 2010

 

很少看国产的电视剧,但《蜗居》这个题材实在是太命中现在中国社会的所谓准主力军–“80后”,刺激到了他们心中的伤痛。

刚才我看的是第10集,这一集是该剧迄今为止把人物性格和内心深处的想法揭露的淋漓尽致的一集。这一集里,苏淳被海萍逼得去借高利贷付首付,海萍却因此而气得想离婚。在海萍和海藻的对话中,她说如果一旦让她大富大贵,她就立即离开苏淳,一刻都不耽误。我相信女人普遍会有这种想法,很现实很势利很无情,但我也相信她说的话:“爱情是什么?只是没钱的男人骗女人的鬼把戏。要真有诚意,就给一套房子,让他伤了女人的心后,还能让女人的身体有个着落之处。”

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“独自等待”

February 20th, 2010

 

今天看了一部电影,国产的,具体点来说,是北京产的。08年就下载到硬盘里搁着,放到现在才由于无聊而打开看了看,谁知道看完它,让我大呼:要是早点看这部电影,就能早点明白里面说的道理,或许,上次就不会那么伤了。

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片名叫《独自等待》,片尾才出现的副题很点睛–献给从你身边溜走的人。由夏雨、李冰冰还有一个挺漂亮但不知名的妞主演。或许因为李冰冰的缘故:北京妞,有着浓浓的北京味儿,再加上那段纠结的情感故事,勾起我内心深处的沉寂。

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a bad lucky trip to school

February 16th, 2010

 

Morning, the 24 bus had been late for 10 minutes. And just going 20 meters, the driver let all the passengers transfer to another bus parking by the way. That made me 15 minutes later than usual. At one stop, there were 20 little kids going up the bus, chatting and noising.

When I transferred to 31 bus, it dropped its electrical wire so the driver needed to get off the bus to fix the problem.

What a sucking day!

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