Archives: April 2010

I Pass the Driving paper examination today

by Max Published on: 04/14/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags: ,
Categories:life

 

Today, after my class, I went to the DMV office, locating in Fell St to apply a Driving License.

When I went into the office, it was 3:25pm. I followed a line for several minutes, and then stepped to the information clerk, where a man was serving. He asked me for my passport and I-20 which I had forgotten last time. After taking a glance over them, he gave me a long form, printing in Chinese! That made me easy to fill out the form. I also wanted to apply the California ID, so I checked the box about the ID. There was an item about organ donation. I thought about it several minutes and decided to object. 

(more…)

Popularity: 6% [?]

见到了13年没见的老同学,高兴死我了

by Max Published on: 04/11/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:life

 

从高中就出国的Tony Fu,犹如神龙一般,只从同学那里听到零星的消息,却一直没办法找到联系方式,甚为挂念。直到最近,才在QQ的同学群里找到了他夫人–是同学,然后再找到他。期间的曲折也终算有回报了。

算起来,我们已有13年没见,听说他发福了,发大福了。到底会发成什么样呢?看着从国内带来的一张合照,俩个瘦子就像猴子一般爬到树上,日期是97年5月6日。

从电话里听他的声音,几乎还是当时稳重浑厚的声线。

(more…)

Popularity: 6% [?]

气质的培养(哈佛管理世界)

by Max Published on: 04/10/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:好文共赏

 

从哈佛管理世界中看到这样一篇小文,感觉非常不错,拿来与诸位分享。

一:沉稳
     (1)不要随便显露你的情绪。
     (2)不要逢人就诉说你的困难和遭遇。
(3)在征询别人的意见之前,自己先思考,但不要先讲。
     (4)不要一有机会就唠叨你的不满。
     (5)重要的决定尽量有别人商量,最好隔一天再发布。
     (6)讲话不要有任何的慌张,走路也是。

二:细心
     (1)对身边发生的事情,常思考它们的因果关系。
     (2)对做不到位的执行问题,要发掘它们的根本症结。
     (3)对习以为常的做事方法,要有改进或优化的建议。
     (4)做什么事情都要养成有条不紊和井然有序的习惯。
     (5)经常去找几个别人看不出来的毛病或弊端。
     (6)自己要随时随地对有所不足的地方补位。

(more…)

Popularity: 4% [?]

关于“缘分”的思考

by Max Published on: 04/08/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags: ,
Categories:语录

 

和一位朋友说起我千方百计联系到一位13年没见的朋友,她说是缘分使然,我说是我争取来的和缘分无关,她又说如果再争取没有缘分也是遇不到吧?

我回了这么一段:

“缘分”这个经过高度抽象以致神化的问题,很难说明它到底起了什么作用,在什么地方起作用,起了多少作用。so~~如果你说是缘分就缘分吧,俺也不争了

她说:哇,很有星爷风格啊,那么诙谐,又还有道理。

(more…)

Popularity: 4% [?]

一个男人关心的东西 决定了他的层次

by Max Published on: 04/06/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:好文共赏

 

一、拥有自信和风度
男人到了二十几岁后,就要开始学着用心去经营自己了,它体现在自己的思想与涵养上。自信是一个男人最重要的品质,自信的男人就你像一只在暴风雨中战斗的海鸥。海鸥所要说的只有一句话“让暴风雨来的再猛烈些吧”,只因为它无所畏惧。一个自信的男人,总是能够感染别人,无论这些人是朋友还是敌人。要使别人对你有信心,就必须要先对自己充满信心。自信的男人可以战胜一切困难。
一个有风度的男人就像一片大海,不拒点滴,又包容江河。有风度使男人得到更多的青睐,不争眼前才能够放眼世界,给予别人才能够受益无穷。正所谓“宰相肚里能撑船”,一个心如大海的男人,肚中不知能撑多少船呀!风度偏偏让男人看上去潇洒万千。

二、养成看书和写作的习惯
男人到了二十几岁后,就开始要走入社会了,在与别人交往的过程中,谈吐与修养是最能征服别人的。一个有知识的男人一定是常看书的,一个有智慧的男人一定是常写作的。无论自己多忙,都要抽出时间来看看书,写写文章。因为这样做能够改变一个男人的思想与行为。一个男人要改变自己思想首先要做的就是读一本好书,读一本书就像交了一个好朋友,他能够帮助你走好自己的路。读书的生活是最丰富多彩的,写作的时光是最能启迪智慧的。
喜欢看书和写作的男人,一定能够培养出一个好的心态。因为知识与智慧的海洋是无边无际的,但喜欢看书和写作的男人却能做到执著追求。追求是一个男人的思想,也是一个男人的行动,永不放弃地追求,无时不刻的在激励的男人去战斗。在这种战斗中,使一个男人能够经历风雨的洗礼,成长为一棵参天大树。读书使男人变得的冷静,写作使男人变得成熟。

 

(more…)

Popularity: 5% [?]

《傻笑着读完心理学》 – 学习的心理学

by Max Published on: 04/05/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:读书笔记

 

想改变孩子的不良习惯,就对他的不良习惯进行奖励。

内在动机是指活动本身能带来满足感和乐趣。所以从内心里产生自觉的主动性的驱动力能驱使你主动做出相应的行动。与此相反,外在动机是指外在的表扬或奖励等促使你做出被动的行动。

如果奖励由内在动机引发的行动,原本积极的内在动机可能会转变为被动的外在动机。

能让对方无条件目服从的秘诀

参试者们为什么知道对方已经处于极度危险的状态,还是服从组织者的话呢?其最大的原因是有无“责任”。当对自己的行为负有责任感时,人们不会无条件地服从。

 

(more…)

Popularity: 8% [?]

突闻你的喜讯 开心而惆怅

by Max Published on: 04/03/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:life

 

隐身的你,在MSN上发来消息,看到你的签名“从流浪猫向家猫过渡”- 副签名“一个人的时候,总觉得煮饭很麻烦,两个人的时候,虽然还是自己煮,居然还蛮享受。”

心里一颤,手下一抖就打出一个自己并不愿知道答案的问句

  • “你结婚了?”
  • “还没拿证”
  • “多好的一个姑娘啊,就这样····唉”
  • “。。。。。汗”
  • “为什么啊!好白菜都让猪啃了!”
  • ······

(more…)

Popularity: 5% [?]

A happy day with my conversation partner

by Max Published on: 04/03/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags: ,
Categories:study

 

To improve my oral communication skill, I joined the Conversation Partner Program. My conversation Partner David is a tall brown-hair guy. He is teaching Ethic classes in USF. We have met several times and we decided to hang out for a field trip.

Today, David came to my home and picked me up with his White TOYOTA SUV. I do not know what the model of the car is, but I like this type of cars, full of power and good capacity. David drove me to the little China Town – Clement. He was a little surprised that I had not been there before.

It was a clear and sunny day. When we walked on the street, David introduced the stores and restaurants to me, and kept asking the same question “How to say xxx in Chinese?” If I knew the word he was talking about, I would teach his with Chinese PinYin and different tones. If I did not know the word, he would try to explain it in other words so that I could get the point. It was good for both of us. I was learning English and David was learning Chinese. In my opinion, his level of Chinese was pretty good for a new learner.

In a Chinese style supermarket, David showed me the rice cooker that he bought not long ago. I asked him how Americans cooked rice without a rice cooker. He said they would use a pot, and put rice and water in it, then close the lid. It seems as easy as using a rice cooker. However, it is trouble that it needs people to watch the pot time to time to prevent it from being boiled away. But fortunately, American does not eat rice as Chinese does.

At last, we went into a Dim Sum store. We ordered some kinds of Dim Sum. It was delicious and was not as expensive as in the big China Town. David enjoyed them very much.

Thanks to David to let me know such a good place. I would come back here another time.

Popularity: 3% [?]

«page 2 of 2

Welcome , today is Monday, 02/06/2012