Archives: September 2010

总算正式面对了自己的遗憾

by Max Published on: 09/29/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:叽叽歪歪

 

今晚有几个小时花在打电话上面,却毫不浪费,因为终于让我弥补了一个懊悔多年的遗憾。

第一通电话是和Artica愉快进行的,说到后来她让我给她讲一个感受很深的故事,我几乎想都没想,就提到前些年,在玻璃小屋当众批评铭宇的事件。我当时的反应实在过激,而且处理不当,再怎么样,也不能当着全体团队人的脸去责骂一个没有太多经验的员工。(这件事不知道为什么,最近总浮现在我脑海里,可能和最近上的business的management内容有关吧,勾起了我当初做管理时的不良回忆)

那次事件给他的打击我相信是非常巨大的,以致后来他的离职我也认为这件事有相当大的影响因素,因此我觉得很对不起他。因为是我不成熟的管理能力造成了一个事故而导致一个勤勤恳恳任劳任怨的员工离开了我的团队。他的离去,对我也造成很大的影响,深刻反省自己在工作中太过于情绪化,以至于不能合适地处理紧急情况。这种困扰到现在还一直纠缠着我,虽然我努力把脾气从工作中抽离出来,但可能会因为太自信或者太自大的原因,又把自己看成是所有事情的中心,就有不自觉地要让所有事情按照自己的安排去运行,那就又会把个人的脾气带回到工作中。

(more…)

Popularity: 8% [?]

给大舅妈接机

by Max Published on: 09/29/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:叽叽歪歪

如昨天所说,劝说大舅父来到家里,等着时间和婆婆与二舅父一起接机。

去程的时候,两个人还是没交流,但我实在困得厉害,坐在车上晃晃悠悠地迷糊过去了。接到大舅妈后,再开去大舅父住处的时候,我想不能再那么让他们这么零交流了,要不这次努力白浪费了不说,过两天婆婆生日,可能都不能坐起一家人,那就大件事了。

所以,在到达住处后,我赶紧下车到车外小声和大舅父说:“和二舅父说声多多谢吧,看在婆婆的份上。”他听了我的意见,向二舅父道了谢,并说请二舅父上去坐坐,二舅父说唐人街这里停不了车,要不过两天婆婆生日再一起坐坐吧。

如此,甚好!

Popularity: 8% [?]

由钓鱼岛事件想到的

by Max Published on: 09/28/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags: ,
Categories:叽叽歪歪

 

9月7日,日本扣押了中国一艘在钓鱼岛附近作业的渔船,中国政府的抗议不断升级,一直上升到温家宝21日在联合国大会上发言,日本在25日释放了中方船长。

此事引起了全球关注,但都是国家政治方面的考虑,我作为一个普普通通的中国人,思想很简单,就是想替中国人向日本人争一口气。

原谅我到现在还是一个比较变态的抵日愤青:千万中国先烈的生命不是你丫弹丸小岛赔得起的!!我不希望以暴易暴灭了你丫这代人,但求能让你丫天皇、首相什么的都跪在南京大屠杀纪念馆前向全中国人认错。

我能做的不多,但从此不买日货,是我的承诺。

Popularity: 6% [?]

努力游说,终有一点点进展

by Max Published on: 09/28/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:life

 

明天大舅妈就到达了,可大舅父还是硬颈说根本不需要二舅父开车去接,自己汽车倒地铁去接就行了。

这可把婆婆着急的够呛,下午到我的屋子里,说联系不上大舅父,座机也没人接,手机也不开机。她还是想创造一个机会让大舅父和二舅父走到一起,哪怕后果再怎么样,也比避而不见好。

婆婆让我再联系一下大舅父,劝说他别那么固执,与二舅父两兄弟早日和好。唉,我也不是没劝说过,但大舅父实在是太顽固了,甚至一提到二舅父,就说“不要提”而回避过去,连劝说的机会都没有。我真是快没办法了。

但我也实在不忍心看着一位八十多岁的老人家,为两个儿子食无味、寝不安。

(more…)

Popularity: 5% [?]

Score of Excel2007

by Max Published on: 09/23/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:study

 

As expected, I got the 100% at the exam. A piece of cake.

But don’t be reckless, the following chapter will be deeper. Maybe there will be some functions I haven’t known.

As conceit makes one lag behind, so modesty helps one make progress.

Popularity: 6% [?]

Score of Gen Insurance

by Max Published on: 09/22/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:study

 

100%!!!

I was the only one who got the full marks.

Thanks God. I will keep going.

Popularity: 6% [?]

唐山大地震

by Max Published on: 09/22/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags: , ,
Categories:影&片

 

1976年7月26日,震级7.8,烈度11级的毁灭性地震把河北唐山推向了地狱,超过24万人丧生,16万人重伤。

电影无法拍出如此悲痛的场景,只是通过记述一家经历过唐山大地震生死的母亲、儿子和女儿的故事,来侧面反映灾后人民的顽强。里面有几句台词很能感动我:

没了,才知道啥叫没了···

我不是想不起,我是忘不掉!

“我怕你担心”“我天天都在担心!”

“倒塌的房子都盖起来了,可心里的房子再也没盖起来,三十二年守着废墟过日子”

它成功地让我小哭了几次,但我觉得如果演员表现再投入点,剧情编得再自然点,再加点烘托气氛的音乐,最好再少点生硬插入的广告,那我肯定就掩面大哭泪奔而去了。

综上,如果不是打着民族悲情牌,如此的泛泛之作,我会后悔浪费了两小时。

Popularity: 5% [?]

Midterm of Excel2007

by Max Published on: 09/21/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:study

 

To be honest, I even didn’t know today was the exam day of Excel. But it didn’t matter at all. The experience that I had earn before let me took this class with no any stress.

I did it perfectly.

Popularity: 4% [?]

Score of Gen Business

by Max Published on: 09/21/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:study

 

The score was good, but not good enough. It was just 91%. I need 1% more to get the qualification of honor application.

There were five people over 90%. That meant there were four competitors. I was not sure if I could make 93% to average the 92% and not sure if I could fulfill the picky instructor.

God bless me please! The honor is very important to me.

Popularity: 3% [?]

Midterm of Gen Insurance

by Max Published on: 09/20/2010
Comments: No Comments
Tags:
Categories:study

 

Yesterday I  go to USF to help Vicky study with her exam, but I reviewed my exam just a little. I was very in a worry before taking the exam.

Very lucky, the exam was generated from quizzes, which were the only material I prepared. God really bless me! Thanks God.

I completed the exam in just five or six minutes, with 100% confidence. For the sake of wariness I sat still and went over the questions twice. After couple people handed in their sheets, I did so.

So happy! Walking on the way to the other class, I felt the sky was clear blue and the sun was warm shinning. All was wonderful.

I thought If I helped other people, God knew it and God would help me back. So, be a good man.

Popularity: 3% [?]

page 1 of 2»

Welcome , today is Monday, 02/06/2012