I have loved you.
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与其耿耿于怀，不如超然面对
自我，自知，自省–关于自己的记录
What is LOVE?
Love is intimacy, passion and commitment.
Intimacy is sharing things that not shared with many other people.
Passion is sexual attraction.
Commitment is the willingness of stay together.
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突然想起的一首小诗
既不回头，何必不忘；
既然无缘，何需誓言。
昨日种种，似水无痕；
明夕何夕，君已陌路。
这是十多年前，大概是九五年吧，一款当时最优秀的电脑游戏–《仙剑奇侠传》，里面的一首小诗。
喜欢那款游戏的人，可能都会记得这首诗。
我也记得，而且记得很深很深，深到刻在了书桌，深到刻进了脑海…
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scope of care
When I write an article, “scope of care” jumps out from my mind. I wonder if there is a scope in which some one cares more and out which he cares less. It may help to localize information more efficiently.
Let me mark this topic: Is scope of care correlative with scope of activity, or several times of it?
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通过这些小细节看清你身边的人
1 条件反射喜欢去关门，拉窗帘，尤其在说一些私密的话的时候的人，以前曾经有偷窥别人的经历
2 喜欢吹牛，对各种事情都赋予极大的夸大的人，通常给人的感觉是很狂妄，但是这些人心里是最自卑的，其实希望通过这种方式缓解掩盖自卑
3 喜欢照相照镜子的人有爱美的天性，更注重仪表，更感性，通常外表上都很不错
4 一味客气，即使是很好的朋友也是这样的人，通常给别人以不真实的感觉，请珍惜他们，他们在人际交往中受过很严重的挫折
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Find a high school classmate
It’s so surprised that I could contact a high school classmate in the U.S. His name is Wang, liang, who was one of my best friend in school times. But when we were divided into different major class, we contact less and less.
Today we talk through phone for half an hour. He has been being a professor in epidemiology, teaching in one university in Tennessee, and being a father of a months-old boy.
What a good man!
But it was late in his time zone, we couldn’t talk all we want to talk.
Keep in touch, man. It’s so nice to talk to you again. 
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回去的时间转眼就到，依依不舍送走亲爱的爹地妈咪
爹地妈咪来这25天的假期好像一转眼就过去了，都还没和他们出三藩市玩玩呢，就已经到了机票上归国的时间。我不舍得，真的不舍得让他们走，也不想送他们去机场，因为那里是让我们离别的地点。
从来没有对航班误点感到过高兴，但这次，我却很高兴。因为它的误点，让我多陪了爸爸妈妈两个多小时，在安检前的休息区再玩了一下斗地主，最后是以妈咪第一，我和爹地并列第二结束这场友谊比赛。
要过安检了，我不能过去，只能杵在黑黑的隔离线外看着他们。手，挥了又挥；头，回了又回；脚，却动也不动；直到他们顺利通过安检，背影慢慢消失在障碍物后。
祝他们一路平安，回到国内安全健康，开心愉快。儿子爱你们–爸爸，妈妈。
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一次很温馨的家庭恳谈会
今晚和爹地妈咪从那两位仁兄的破事儿说起，说到了一个妈咪在和别人对话的时候，总喜欢说出否定的事例来与人争辩。
我感觉这样不好，至少我会不愿意继续这样的对话；长此以往，我就会不愿意和妈咪说话了。我把我的想法和妈咪说了，妈咪一开始自然很难接受这样的意见（这里我考虑欠周，没考虑到妈咪也是普通人，会对攻击产生应激，这样不利于开展对话。应该先铺垫铺垫，再借机转入正题），我先后举了否定对他人的心理影响和刺猬过冬理论，来反复说一些事儿：人是需要被别人肯定，而不是否定；沟通是为了分享彼此的经历，而不是各说各话，别说完之后，你那一小块还是那一小块，我这一小块也还是这一小块，没融合成大一点的块；和外人沟通的时候，顾虑会多些所以说话也会小心些，而和家里人沟通时，脑子自然处于放松状态，没那么多回路去考虑什么话该说什么话不该说，从而导致“对家里人还不如对外人”的奇怪现象···
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2011’s spring grades – five A’s again
Very fortunately, I have finished my certificate with a perfect record. It’s not an easy job, but if I couldn’t handle these associate classes, how could I deal with the graduate courses? There will still be a lot of tough tasks waiting for me…
Take a screenshot with the excellent job. ^_^
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